3 cultural forces that feed the flame of burnout

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While individuals and leaders play a role in workplace burnout, there is undoubtedly a much larger underlying force at play, and that’s what we want to focus on now. Let’s take a closer look at three cultural forces that create the perfect breeding ground for burnout to take root and flourish.

1. Hustle culture

Rise and Grind.

Don’t Stop When You’re Tired. Stop When You’re Done.

Tough Time Doesn’t Last. Tough People Do.

These slogans aren’t inspiring, they are toxic. They perpetuate the false belief that all it takes to be successful is your ambition and grit. In other words, if you’re not successful or wealthy, you only have yourself to blame, and you’d better put your nose to the grindstone if you want to make your way to the top.

This exploitative narrative goes against research that has proven time and time again that long hours improve neither productivity nor creativity. It also glosses over the systemic barriers that people of colour, people with disabilities, women, and members of the LGBTQIA+ community have been battling for decades.

The hustle culture that inspires those slogans also takes advantage of people’s desire for meaningful work to keep them working longer, in the name of passion and purpose. It peddles this twisted belief that overworking proves that you are passionate, driven, and committed. And who wants to be the opposite of passionate, driven, and committed to their work?

Being passionate about something doesn’t mean it has to consume your life. Being tough has nothing to do with how hard you can “grind”. And working hard doesn’t mean working around the clock.

2. Productivity

When we talk about productivity, many of us still think of it from an industrial standpoint. During the industrial revolution, we operated in a manufacturing-based economy, where our productivity is measured by the things that we physically produce. Any time spent not actively producing something tangible is considered wasted. An inefficiency.

But that’s not the economy that we are operating in anymore. Most of us live and work in a knowledge-based economy, where the product of our work is no longer a tangible thing. What we produce are ideas, relationships, and solutions. In other words, it’s not the slide deck you created that matters, it’s the ideas you’re communicating through that slide deck that truly matters.

And ideas, relationships, and innovation need time and space to form and grow. But we don’t operate this way in the workplace.

How many of us feel okay sitting at our desk staring into the distance to think about a problem? How many of us would reject a meeting invite because it conflicts with time that we’ve set aside to think through a complex problem? How many of us regularly spend a part of our work week reading and reflecting on the work that we do?

If we truly care about optimizing the way we work, we would never book over a colleague’s focus time unless it’s an absolute emergency. We would give ourselves and our team time to rest, to learn, and to connect with each other as part of our workday. And we would stop letting our calendar fill up with back-to-back meetings.

3. Mom guilt

A few years ago, a P&G ad campaign conducted interviews for a fake job called Director of Operations. In the interview, they shared ridiculous job expectations such as unlimited working hours with no breaks, a chaotic and physically straining work environment, increased workload and stress over the holidays, and absolutely no pay (because the meaningful connections that you get to make on the job is more than enough). After each interviewee expressed how inhumane, illegal, and cruel the job sounded, the interviewer revealed that billions of people happily hold that job currently: they’re moms. With this reveal, everyone broke into relief laughter and acknowledged how true it was.

The campaign went viral and brought in approximately 500 millions in sales for P&G that year. Can you imagine a similar ad campaign featuring dads instead of moms? We doubt it would have experienced the same level of success. The success of this ad underscores a problematic yet deep-rooted belief: we expect women to put themselves last in service of her family. And cue the mom guilt.

Considering the intense workload associated with raising children, especially in the first 3-4 years of a child’s life, it is ridiculous that we provide such little support to make this easier on working parents. Childcare is expensive, if you can find a spot. When your child is sick, most employers don’t give more than 3 sick days a year (if any) that you can use for family illness. Do you know any kid that’s sick only 3 days a year? When you consider that women tend to start their family around the same time they enter middle management positions in their career, you can see why we have a broken rung that limits the number of women who progress onto executive level.

So to reduce rates of burnout, all parents need strong childcare infrastructure. All workers would benefit from alternative work arrangements that allow them to progress in our career without burning the candles at both ends, whether they’re raising the next generation or caring for an aging parent. We need hiring and promotion practices that do not penalize those who need to step away temporarily to do caregiving work.

These aren’t small shifts – these are entrenched cultural forces at play. And while we know they won’t change overnight, we do see more and more organizations offering real flexibility and changing how they work in order to better care for their people.

And that gives us hope.